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Do You Have A "Missing Mother"?

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Release childhood abandonment or rejection
and heal your heart!

Was your mother absent early in your life because of illness, death, or emotional unavailability? Are you and your mother a painful emotional “mismatch”? Do you feel invisible?

You could suffer from "Missing Mother Syndrome" (not a clinically established term) if you experience most of the following conditions on a regular basis. And yes, even if your mother has been physically present:

  • You feel lost, out of place, invisible, and unsafe in this world
  • There is an underlying, chronic sadness in your life
  • You tend to feel lonely and depressed, especially at "Happy    Family" gatherings
  • You hate your body or are unsure about "being a woman"
  • You have abandonment or anger issues that hurt your    relationships
  • You experience social stress (feeling invisible)
  • Any major crisis in your life throws you back into the painful past
  • There is fear, anxiety, guilt and shame in  your life
  • You feel homesick without knowing where "home" is
  • You are trying too hard to be happy and "perfect"
  • You take rejection very personally
  • You believe that everybody else gets their act together
         - except for you

Get my eBook

THE MISSING MOTHER HANDBOOK
How to heal childhood abandonment and rejection
using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)

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Private sessions

As an energy work practitioner certified in EFT , Events Psychology, and Stress Management,  I offer several paths of emotional healing for women and men who experienced early childhood rejection or abandonment by their mothers. (and sometimes fathers).

In our sessions we release the painful emotions, and often major cognitive shifts occur. All sessions can easily be done on the phone.

Contact me for a free consultation

For information about private sessions, please go to Sessions

Go here for testimonials of "Missing Mother" clients

Turning off the panic switch

prayer Childhood abuse can lead to severe symptoms later in life. One of my clients experienced multiple chemical sensitivity and panic attacks. Persistance and EFT helped her in surprising ways.  

Posted Aug 4, 2010 451 Reads Read Article...

Tapping meditation for the oil spill in the Gulf

 ♥ ♥ ♥ Are You sad and angry about the oil spill? You are not alone. But what if there was a better way to deal with this situation? Maybe we can even help? Here is a tapping meditation that just came to me without much thinking. It is most powerful when you say the words aloud, even if you do not do EFT.

Posted Jun 17, 2010 871 Reads Read Article...

Easing the pain of Missing Mother Syndrome with EFT

roseWhen I had my very first EFT session as a client, we went straight back to my birth. I released a deep, very painful feeling of abandonment, since my schizophrenic mother was unable to bond with me from the beginning. It was a powerful experience, and it made a believer and an EFT practitioner out of me.

Posted Jun 10, 2010 1,200 Reads Read Article...

How to overcome an obstacle

prayerUsing creative imagination is a powerful tool for stress relief. Regain inner balance and emotional wellness by going to your "inner spa" and removing obstacles and barriers to your goals.

Posted May 5, 2010 1,561 Reads Read Article...

Magical EFT - with the Genius Symbols

prayerHere is a technique I developed that combines the clearing work of EFT with the "Project Sanctuary"Classic Game and the Genius Symbols. “Magical EFT” is not for everybody: Usually, EFT trauma work needs to be done before entering into this realm. However, I have noticed that EFT works faster (less rounds) and often in a gentler, more “tearless” way when done in this metaphorical framework...

Posted Apr 14, 2010 1,747 Reads Read Article...

Which one is the right inner sanctuary for you?

spiralBuilding an inner sanctuary, a safe space where we can retreat in difficult times, is very helpful. It restores emotional balance and peace of mind. Find out what kind of imaginary environment is right for you.

Posted Apr 1, 2010 1,608 Reads Read Article...

How do you know what your heart wants

golden heartA broken heart happens -sooner or later- to everybody, yet strangely enough, we tend to believe that other people have heaps of money, great careers, excellent health, and are blessed with devoted spouses and perfect children.

Posted Apr 1, 2010 1,810 Reads Read Article...

Imagine feeling better right now

magicMeadows are old, undisturbed areas that harbor a great diversity of native plants and animals. It is the perfect place to relax. Just imagine one as your personal place of emotional wellness.

Posted Mar 16, 2010 1,602 Reads Read Article...

Case study: How to make a very difficult decision

Prayer 2Emotional wellness can be improved in many ways. This is the story of a woman who had been agonizing over making an important decision. EFT and Events Psychology helped her to feel much better about herself.

Posted Mar 1, 2010 1,948 Reads Read Article...

Creative Imagination helps woman to feel better about herself

prayer1A woman hates herself for wanting to go back to her abusive ex-husband. While traditional EFT is helpful, it is creative imagination combined with EFT that achieves the breakthrough.

Posted Feb 22, 2010 1,920 Reads Read Article...

How to gain a good self-esteem

prayer Silvia Everbody wants to have high self-esteem. It just makes life so much easier, doesn't it. So why is that goal often so elusive?

Posted Feb 17, 2010 1,914 Reads Read Article...

Healing the inner wounded child with EFT

silvia prayer2The world is crowded with lonesome, fearful, and hurt inner children. At least that is  the impression I get when I work with women -and sometimes men- who had emotionally missing mothers and/or fathers. All of my clients suffered from early childhood trauma, they were unappreciated, abandoned, or rejected in their childhood. EFT can make a real difference. 

Posted Feb 7, 2010 2,505 Reads Read Article...

What your heart wants to tell you

Silvia prayerA broken heart happens -sooner or later- to everybody, yet strangely enough, we tend to believe that other people have heaps of money, great careers, excellent health, and are blessed with devoted spouses and perfect children.

Posted Feb 5, 2010 2,047 Reads Read Article...

Do you feel invisible? Tap on it now

prayer2 SilviaDo you often feel invisible or not heard in social situations? EFT helps to ease the pain and releases old emotional baggage. Here is a script to get going.

Posted Feb 3, 2010 2,364 Reads Read Article...

Bad economy still bugging you? Keep tapping

prayer2 silviaFor many of us, the economy has not turned around yet. Money fears, possible job loss....EFT to the rescue! Just keep tapping on all the anxiety, the worries, and the anger. You will feel sooo much better.

Posted Jan 31, 2010 1,864 Reads Read Article...

Events Psychology: Don't solve it, evolve it

prayer silviaDr. Silvia Hartmann's "Events Psychology" opens new doors to understanding human behaviour and healing what went wrong. Read the case of a woman who was scared of groups, and how Events Psychology and EFT turned out to be a winning combination.

Posted Jan 29, 2010 2,341 Reads Read Article...

Do you ever listen to your inner baby?

prayer1 silviaThere is much talk about inner child work.  How about your inner baby? If we are spiritual beings having a physical experience, we should pay special attention to the transition into this world. EFT can put things right where they once went terribly wrong.

Posted Jan 28, 2010 2,027 Reads Read Article...
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